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when I model it they can see me
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transparent i may cry over something
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that's heavy i may uh express some
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trauma that I needed to release in that
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moment next thing you know it's a chain
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reaction of men uh men expressing their
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pain no longer holding it back and
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they're able to transform i also love
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using practical examples in this book i
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use the crayon analogy where uh I
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compare men um our I guess usage of our
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emotions is like compared to the eight
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box eight crayon box then you got the 64
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box of crayons that women have so the 64
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box of crayons represents the gamut of
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emotions that we were all given
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regardless of your gender but yet women
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are used to expressing those as men we
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have the eight box of crayons of
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emotions and we probably only use three
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or four out of those anger frustration
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and maybe some fear as a result in
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communication and what you're talking
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about becoming a verbal processor when a
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woman expresses violet all we have is
